Your C-Section Scar – A Mark to Be Proud Of!

Today’s guest post is from Heather Gaither.

Heather is the editor and owner of the ‘Essential Infant resource for moms‘, an awesome website with tips, ideas, training and infant care that is dedicated to helping new moms Savor and survive their First Year with baby.

Heather’s guest post is something every mom who has had a c-section will enjoy and certainly relate to…

Why Your C-Section Scar is a Medal of Honor

By Heather Gaither

In a world where the slightest bodily imperfection is blurred away with a good computer program, it’s no wonder that many women feel embarrassed about their small cesarean incision.

I’m here to paint a new picture.   That scar is a beauty mark.  Your medal for a major accomplishment.  It’s time it got the honor it deserves.

The Unique Medal of Motherhood

First, let that scar remind you of the amazing-ness of motherhood.  Think about it for a minute:  Only you could have had that baby.

That baby could never have come out of my womb.  Just as my children could never have come out of yours.  Each child is it’s own unique gift.

Your Cesarean scar is a physical testimony that that child belongs to you.  A unique scar for a unique child.  A matched pair.

The Humble Medal of Motherhood

Chances are, you know of at least a few women who would LOVE to nourish life in their womb, and yet, for some reason, have been unable to conceive.

That scar should be a reminder to you of just how blessed you are.  Your body was able to carry life.  Sadly, there are many who can never know that honor.

They certainly can know the honor of raising, loving, and guiding children, but the GROWING of children is something they will, unfortunately, never be able to physically experience.

The Thankful Medal of Motherhood

So the next time you’re tempted to frown at that mom-mark in the mirror, remember your friend, spending thousands in an attempt to bear a child.  She would do anything to have that mark on her tummy.

Don’t take that little line for granted.   Embrace what it means, hug your baby, and be thankful you have it.

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Heather G. is the founder and writer of The Essential Infant Resource for Moms, a website that helps mothers savor (and survive!) their baby’s first 18 months of life.

Heather also writes a newsletter called The Merry Mother, a monthly publication that offers easy mothering tips, great baby coupons, giveaways, and a chuckle or two.  Click here to see the benefits of becoming a Merry Mother.

When she’s not sipping coffee and typing away at Caribou Coffee, you can find her with her husband and three daughters in Wisconsin building forts, throwing snowballs, and changing a few diapers ;-)

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2 comments:

  1. Kaytee, 14. March 2011, 23:41

    I have two different scars from my three children. The first, from nearly 8 years ago, is from my oldest son, Ashton. It is a vertical scar, and much more noticeable than the horozontal scar i have from my 2nd & 3rd babies Dalton & Brighley. I just had my 3rd C-section last Monday, so I am syill healing, but these scars on my body are nothing I will ever be ashamed of, because they are from the 3 happiest days of my life. =) I cherish every part of bringing my angels into this world.. even the scars they left behind.

     
  2. Elizabeth, 15. March 2011, 8:13

    Hey Kaytee, thank you so much for sharing that!

    I love to hear women profess their pride in their scars ;-) Having a baby, no matter how it enters the world is truly an miracle and every mom should be proud of that – and the battle scars that come with it ;-) *Blessings to you*

     

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